Trust your own pace, believe in your own timeline
So how old are you now? Do you feel that you are being left behind? By your classmates? your friends? your family?. In what aspect? Is it about career? about relationship building? There are days when the feeling of being left behind is so strong. You see one friend buys his own car. You see your cousin gets his first promotion or your friend being able to settle and get married. On the other hand, you. Still thinking of what kind of job you really want. Questioning yourself why am I not able to stay at a job for long. You will question yourself "why am I not like them? Why are they getting what they want. While me, I am here, unstable and confused. Lost, in the hope of being able to find where I really want to be. This kind of feeling is one of the hardest feelings in the world. Because this means self doubt. This is extremely dangerous because you, yourself, that needs to believe in your capabilities first before others. And if you don't, no one will. ...